Friday, February 26, 2010

“Thinking about homeschooling your kids? (Gretna Breeze)” plus 2 more

“Thinking about homeschooling your kids? (Gretna Breeze)” plus 2 more


Thinking about homeschooling your kids? (Gretna Breeze)

Posted: 26 Feb 2010 04:56 AM PST

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The orientation meeting will give new homeschoolers or families interested in homeschooling the opportunity to ask questions, obtain help with paperwork, receive lots of helpful information about resources and activities in the Omaha metro area, as well as connect with other parents who are just beginning the home education journey.



Call or e-mail Shana Baker for information at sbaker5@cox.net or 332-4449.  

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Two new candidates hope to unseat Strama in Travis County (News 8 Austin)

Posted: 26 Feb 2010 05:52 AM PST

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Two last minute Republican candidates entered the primary for House District 50, which stretches across northern Travis County. The entries are part of an effort to unseat the Democratic incumbent, Rep. Mark Strama.

One of the new candidates is Patrick McGuinness, a high-tech industry veteran who has been an active member of the Travis County Republican Party in recent years. He said he is running on a platform of job creation and better education without additional tax dollars.

"We shouldn't bust the budget or balance the budget on the backs of tax payers. I'm for no tax increases," McGuinness said.

McGuinness also wants to eliminate the charter school cap and supports publicly financed private school vouchers.

McGuinness' challenger is Ryan Lambert, a firefighter. He hasn't raised much money, but believes the state's currency should change if inflation spirals out of control. He proposes Texas nullify a federal legal tender law.

"One of the things we can do is merely uphold the Constitution, which says as the state takes money it will only accept gold or silver as legal tender," Lambert said. "I want to give people the freedom to protect themselves if they choose to."

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To brainwash a parent (Malaysian Mirror)

Posted: 25 Feb 2010 08:35 PM PST

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WHEN my first child was born, a woman I had known many years handed me a book. She told me it would be helpful as I raised my daughter as it had helped her train her own kids. That book? To Train Up a Child, by Michael and Debi Pearl.

It wasn't a very long book-just the right size for a new mom to read in between feedings and changings. But still, something about the book didn't sit right with me at that time and I never bothered to read it all the way through until later.

Until five years later, when I had four kids between the ages of 0 and 5.child-abuse-1

It was about this time I started keeping a blog, and when I finally got around to reading the book, you know what?

My suspicions were confirmed. I was so saddened by what I read that I wrote about it and started a pretty significant discussion on what I perceived to be dangerous teachings the Pearls were presenting.

There were many suggestions that seemed borderline abusive, but the most bewildering things was their likening of child training to that of training a mule:

"If you are just beginning to attempt to control an already rebellious child who runs from discipline and is too incoherent to listen, then use whatever force is necessary to bring him to bay. If you have to sit on him to spank him then do not hesitate. And hold him there until he is surrendered. Prove that you are bigger, tougher, more patiently enduring, and are unmoved by his wailing. Defeat him totally. Accept no conditions for surrender. No compromise. You are to rule over him as a benevolent sovereign. Your word is final."

Unfortunately, some parents have taken this teaching to its very literal and fatal conclusion. Maybe you've heard of this tragedy already, but just last week 7-year-old Lydia Schatz was "disciplined" to death by her homeschooling parents, Kevin and Elizabeth. Her 11-year-old sister Zariah was also hospitalized for extensive injuries.

Whipping children into shape?

The parents used the teachings of the Pearls to "train" their children, whipping their kids with a quarter-inch plumbing supply line-the very thing the Pearls suggest parents use.

There has been quite a bit of internet buzz about this, as well there should be. This is not the first time a parent has killed his or her child after following the parenting advice of the Pearls.

book-to-train-up-a-childFour years ago, 4-year-old Sean Paddock died after his mother wrapped him up so tightly in blankets he was unable to breathe.

When is enough enough?

When are Christians going to call this what it is-abuse-and stop defending the teaching just because the Pearls claim them to be biblical truth? When are Christians going to stop blindly following garbage teaching and THINK?

Lynn Harris of Salon.com wrote:

"It's one thing for those of us outside the fundamentalist Christian/Christian home-schooling world to point fingers at the Pearls and voice outrage at their methods. What really matters, and what stands to have actual impact, is the outrage inside the Pearls' world. And right now, more than ever, an anti-Pearl movement within the conservative Christian community is rising up in heated, if sometimes whispered, fury. Some say-even pray-that Lydia Schatz's death will bring Michael and Debi Pearl exactly the kind of attention they deserve."

Indeed, it may be finally happening but at what price?

Elizabeth Esther, a Christian, writer, and mother of five, asks, "How many more children will die before the Christian community holds Michael and Debi Pearl to account?" She goes on to give the following analogy:

"Consider the current massive recall of Toyota cars. Do all Toyotas have the same fatal flaw? No. But the flaw is significant enough that drastic measures are being taken. Today, in fact, the CEO of Toyota is being critically questioned in a congressional hearing.
This is how I view the Pearls' child-training methods. Sure, maybe some parents are able to safely 'drive' the Pearl model. But there is a significant flaw in the Pearl method and tragically, for at least two young children, it has proved fatal."

Time for change

Former MTW Ukraine missionary and homeschooling parent Alexandra Bush of TulipGirl fame offers these reasons why some families have not spoken out before:

child-abuse-2"It is easy to filter out the harsher teachings, the extremism, when surrounded by word pictures of peaceful, loving, fun families. The Pearls seem to tell parents that they just have to 'win' once and make sure their children know who is in charge, and then they will never have to spank again. That's how parents get sucked in-promises of a fun, peaceful home, minimal confrontation, doing the 'right thing' for their children. Basically, the BS detectors are turned off by the pretty promises that are made."

It is time.

Should the Pearls be held accountable in the death of Lydia Schatz? Legally, perhaps not, as they were not the ones standing over that child beating her to death.

But should they be taken to task by the Christian community for their sketchy-at-best, fatal-at-worst teachings?

When are we going to cast these Pearls before swine? — WORLD Magazine

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